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what do you do if you have a crush on a teacher but its a girl and your a girl but your not lesbian or bi? and is it bad or wrong to have sick mental images or thoughts in your head about that person if you listen to a certain song? :/

 MrsBellaSwan posted over a year ago
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vanillamoon08 said:
Um...honestly I would wait out the crush. Like, since it's summer vacation now, you won't be seeing the teacher, and when you start school again wheneveryou do, you also won't be seeing her often since you'll have new teachers. :)And, try to get involved with more guys. Like, try to meet new guys and stuff, and see if you can delevop a crush on any of them. Having a crush will help "fade" away any other crushes, and it'll get your mind off of things. :)

And, fantasizing is totally normal for teenagers and mature adults. And, it's also normal for a song to come on and it suddenly reminds you of a person and then you start daydreaming about them. So, I think it's okay. :) Like, for me, whenever I hear the song "So Close" from the movie Enchanted, I picture Taylor Lautner and I slow dancing lmao!!!! But, everybody is different, so, yeah, it's not bad or wrong to think that way sometimes. It's normal, and I bet a lot of other girls out there have that problem, they just don't say anything about it.
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wow. thats funny. thanks for the advice! i have another question for you though
MrsBellaSwan posted over a year ago
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lol no problem!!!! :D And, sure, go for it. :)
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
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what do you do if you like an actor who is really really REALLY hot and a good singer but he's gay in real life? (i am practically in love with gay ppl. thier like bffs) but your mom says your way too obsessed with actors and tv and that you need to get back to the "real life"
MrsBellaSwan posted over a year ago
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I think it's okay to have any celebrity crushes, including gay actors. Like, my friend has a crush on Neil Patrick Harris, and there's nothing wrong with that. So, keep your celebrity crush on the actor, desptie what your mom says. If parents start calling you "obsessed", then tone down whatever you're doing a little bit. Like, if you talk about actors and TV to much, try not to mention it on some days. Try to keep your interest in actors and TV to yourself, if it annoys your mom. But, yeah, keep the celebrity crush. There's nothing wrong with it. :)
vanillamoon08 posted over a year ago
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