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i...how do i say this?

i keep overhearing people talk about me...about what happened...about a kiss...and a horible choice of friends. even the teachers are talking about me. yesterday they did it when i was in the room! how do i respond? how do i get them to stop talking about it? i know that 'everyone loves a piece of good gossip' , but this is kida way to much. the girl they are talking about has my name, but she is not me. i try to be myself, but nobody sees that, they only see the lies that others have spread. even those who are supposed to be closer to me than my own loving family think that im a lier and a hypocrite when im not. they htink im some kind of slut, but im still a virgin and i dont act or dress that way. im the good girl, why cant they see that? im sorry...i just needed to vent and cry. but if anyone knows how to make this better, please tell me
 eliza112 posted over a year ago
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bakes2389 said:
Awe, I'm sorry all of this is happening to you. That sounds terrible! People can truly be cruel. Don't let any of it get to you. You know that you are the good girl. Forget all those that can't see it and believe ridiculous rumors instead of the truth.
If someone starts talking about it in front of you, I would stand up and set them straight. I would honestly confront the people who are spreading the lies. There is no need for you to have to put up with that nonsense. Most of the time, I would say ignore it and keep going on with your daily routine, but enough is enough. And as for those who are 'supposed to be closer than your family' are not your real friends. A real friend would have your back and know that you are not a liar, a hypocrite, and/or slut. I would definitely tell them off as well.
I'm sorry that all of this is happening and I hope everything gets better for you in this awful situation. Hang in there! :)
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