only vaguely related but would anyone know where i could get a coat like buffy's in once more with feeling, actual replica or just simlar, either it doesn't matter :)

I'm not sure if you can find an exact replica. But you can find a long black leather duster just by searching it at froogle:

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Hope that was a little helpful?

MAYBE YOU CAN FIND IT AT ebay

no idea. maybe there is some kind of online store that you can look for that has kind of stuff like that? clothes from the eps?

A lot of the shows things have gone bye!! Maybe your best bet is at one of those Comic-com gatherings that come around. People have booths that sell all kinds of different things. It maybe costly though because it's a collective idem. Sorry because I know what I've been going through just to find something for my niece who I gave her all the season's of Buffy and Angel. She's so much into it but there's hardly anything out there now a days!!
"Good Luck"!!!!

Her coat is burberry i got the same style one at their london store

There are a lot of screen used costumes listed at www.yourprops.com
if you are looking for the screen-used coat,maybe it's there? That would also mean you would have to beg the owner to sell it to you!