I'd say Tiffany because I can't imagine losing my mother at such an early age. I don't think I'd be strong enough to sing a song about mothers after that. Her story makes me cry. So, I feel bad for her when the subject of mothers comes up.

I feel sorry for Yoona too, but I don't understand what her position is. I've never heard anything about her mother, but I don't want to jump to conclusions.

^she never knew her mother, hence the tomboyness

^ Oh, that's so sad! I had no idea. You're right, though, that would explain her tomboyish nature.

I'm really sorry for both of them.Tiffany lose her other in very early life.... I think it's very hard to forget about it, i mean it's impossible i know fany is very strong
And for yoona... It's hurtful that her mother abandoned her, very very sad T.T

Most of the time I feel more sorry for Fany but when they sing Dear Mom I think I feel a little more sorry for Yoona. When they sing dear mom everyone else in SNSD gets to think about their mother and all the good times they spent together. Yoona doesn't have that. Tiffany lost her mom which IMO is harder to deal with but at the same time she gets to have the memories of a loving mother, Yoona doesn't.

I feel sorry for....

I feel so sorry for both of them, I just feel more sorry for YoonA, as her mother abandoned her at a young age. I feel terrible for Fany too, just not as much as Yoong

Both actually. Tiffany lost her mother at a young age when she was still developing into becoming a woman,through those times,its best to have your mother by your side to guide you through it,same goes to Yoona. I cant imagine losing my mother,i dont think i can go on honestly.

Yoona never knew her mother which is really sad but she never experienced losing her mum at a young age and considering Tiffany was at a young age it must've been really hard for her.

I think i feel the Most srry for Yoona. You should look at her face, it makes me want to cry :( She just stands there still and clenches her teeth, her hands clench and her throat is tight so it is almost impossible to sing during the song. Tiffany crys because she misses the happy memories, Yoona cant cry because she never had those memories, so she feels that they aren't hers to cry over. But still never having a mom and knowing she abandoned you, compared to having a loving mom who cared for you since her death... I Feel terrible just thinking about it, my poor fany and Yoongie. Yoona will probably be one of the best moms when she grows up, since she knows the pain of feeling alone and unwanted, she will make sure no child feels like that, fany too. They will both shine brighter than a thousand gems

Yoona feels it more for me.

Because Yoona's mother didn't want her or couldn't manage herself to live with her daughter, which is extremely sad considering that she probably is still alive and still doesn't want to repair their relationship. Tiffany's mother loved her and took care of her daughter before she died. I agree with love4hope4ever on that matter.

both actually but Yoona never seen her mom~ Fany's lucky that she got to see her mom while Yoona....never~ :'(((((((( i can't imagine without my mom~

i think yoona cause at least tiffany had the opportunity to met her mom and enjoyed her. yoona didn`t had the chance.

I think Yoona.

I dont understand why its yoona. She still have her family without her mother who decide to leave her so if she coming back you think yoona should accept her? When u decide to leave your own blood u no longer a mom. She still have her family who loves her...
Tiffany has a mother but sadly she passed away..i can accept that my mother leaving me because she no longer my mother but loosing my mother is worse happens in ones life.

I feel sad for both of them... But Tiffany, even if she was just a child, she knew her mother... Yoona doesn't...

To me I feel sorry for Yoona more but Tiffany too. Yoona was abandoned by her mother , she would had to go through many things without her by her side when she was younger she was probably very upset when she sees other children having moms also Tiffany but she never even got a glimpse of her mother whilst Tiffany lost hers when she was a young child. Yoona and Tiffany and SNSD Fighting! ♥

Both are sad but Yoona's was really sad. She never had a mom who loved her because her mom abondoned her. I Bet her mom is now regretting doing that because look how beautiful and loved she is now!

I feel so sorry for both of them.....thats terrible thing, for not having mother....These 2 girls are so strong! my 1st and 2nd biases<3

because at least tiffany knows her mum loves her yoona its like her mum does not want her anymore when they sing dear mom you can see the sadness in her she must be thinking my mum must hate me so much to not want to reunite with me