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So is this really a good reason for me to just give up on acting towards my bisexuality?

Okay so I'm a bisexual girl. Well I mean I've never had a real relationship with another girl just yet, but I'd so love to. I mean I'm totally sure of myself and ready for it. That's if I can ever find the right girl. Lately its been so hard though, because most of all the girls that I've came across so far that made contact with me are all extremely perverted. So I guess all bisexuals and lesbians (I'm bisexual) other then me are all perverted. I'm not perverted at all and I'm a Christian. I'm just the type of Christian that accepted myself for the way that I am, because I know that being attracted to the same sex isn't a choice or something that you can control BUT I still believe in celibacy before marriage though. Just as I would do for a man I'll do for a women. I mean I live in Florida, but even if I have to go to another part of the United States just to get legally married to the woman I love. I'd totally do it. Well of course as long as it wasn't to a place I'd have to take an airplane ride to. So is the whole point of being bisexual and lesbian only for the sex and filth of it all? Maybe it isn't, but all of the other lesbians and bisexuals besides me seem to focus it all on sex more then anything else and I'm in this for love not all sex. So this is where things start coming into question that is this really a good reason to just give up on acting towards my bisexuality? Or would there really be some other girl out there just like me? Because some girls that get all pervy just end up leaving or being uninterested just because you're not into all of that pervy mess or porn. (I hate porn!) So what do I do? Will I ever find a girl just like me or should I just TRY to be straight even though its gonna be really difficult? I really wish I weren't bisexual, but I totally am. I can't deny that. Plus I have to have Autism along with it which makes my life so much harder on me.
 MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
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Insight357 said:
Some people are just like, just as straight males are also perverted, etc. You'll find that everywhere, but you have to keep your head held high and wait until the right person comes along. Do not give up on your orientation, because the person you marry could be a woman and if you give up on it, you may never meet her. Just be patient, because there are other lesbians and bisexual girls that have similar values. It's all a matter of being patient :D <3
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LaDispute said:
Uh... Okay um.

No, don't give up "acting towards it." I know there are girls who want to wait until marriage because I have met a couple on other websites. You're not alone. If you find a girl whose beliefs are compatible with yours, fab. If you find a guy whose beliefs are compatible with yours, that's fab as well. I think you should just keep an open mind to whoever to meet regardless of gender. Girls aren't all "pervy."

Also, just to put it out there, I think a lot of queer girls are so sexually liberal because being queer tends to give people a more liberal mindset. Or even if that isn't the cause/effect it's undeniably generally correlated, being queer and being liberal minded. At least it's that way for a lot of girls I know that are queer.

But anyway, NEVER "try to be straight." Ever. If that's not who you are, don't force it; you'll make yourself more miserable. It's fine to reject specific girls because they don't share your beliefs, but definitely keep an open mind to them. You wouldn't want to miss out. ^_^

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Let-Us-Learn said:
I am so sorry for the bad experiences you've had.

There are plenty of queer girls out in the world who are in it for love. The problem is that some people are much more outgoing in saying, "hey! You're queer, I'm queer. Let's date!" and they can end up being the type of girls you've met who are sexually-driven and not really interested in romantic relationships.
The problem with finding the queers girls who want a relationship for love is that they may not be as loud about being queer as they'd like to.
I hope you believe that they are out there, because they are. It's just that the best ones are sometimes the hardest to find.

I wish you the best of luck.
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I'm one of the very shy types and don't speak up that much at all, but I'm trying to by starting out by making posts like this. I mean I'm more of a quiet type person to be honest and not very loud at all. I'd say I'm one of the quite rare ones too. I'm not even perverted at all. I just wish that there were more out there like me.
MewStrawberry posted over a year ago
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Thank you.
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bazer63 said:
No, keep trying.
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