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I'm a Girl but I think I'm a Boy....should I do something?

Being a girl is OK....but I feel more comfortable and cooler with guys and guy things. I think I deserve to be more of a Guy because I don't like my boobs, my hair, and girly girls. I guess for a feeling of a dude I like video games, porn, sports, and running around. I would rather wear tennis shoes,t-shirts, and pants or sweat pants than stylish girly shirts,dresses,skirts,and shorty shorts. I like some girl stuff but more into dude stuff. My mom won't accept me being a tomboy because my mom including other people in my family want me to dress girly or nicer. I know I'm a tomboy and that's how I feel....but she doesn't think I don't know who I am. I had thoughts of transgendring.
 kicksomebut23 posted over a year ago
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glelsey said:
It might be worth getting yourself checked for gender dysphoria. A professional can help you figure out if you are transgender, if you should do anything about it, and if so, the next steps to take.

You might find this information useful:
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I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide to do.
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tamore said:
Embrace feeling like a boy as much as you can, but make sure you're still safe in your home. Don't do anything that would strain your relationship with your mom to a breaking point.

It sounds like you're not really sure if you're a tomboy or a boy though? That's something you're gonna have to explore, and it's something I explored for a while before realizing I'm just not really a boy or a girl. You might wanna try buying a chest binder if you can, it made a huuuuuge difference in my life. I always hated having breasts and a binder made me a lot more self-confident and it felt like me. Underworks has some really good ones! If you can't get one now you can use sports bras but don't ever bind with anything else.

So yeah, stay safe with your family but explore your gender as best you can. Think about being transgender, maybe find people online (tumblr and trevorspace are both really good sites!) who are trans and talk to them about their experiences. It can really help you figure out who you are.

Good luck, bb <3

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I hated having big boobs too
kicksomebut23 posted over a year ago
FreedomBird said:
You sound like a genderqueer. Which is fine cause some people are. I'm Genderfluid. And I know a Youtuber named JoeyBlondeWolf22 she's been a huge inspiration to me. Maybe she can help you. :) She's a YouTuber. Hope this helps.
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