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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
No.
I have nothing against people themselves, just "the act" and I am not saying I am better-than, I understand cutting and how it begins and why it remains but I found out my ex was emo and cut and I have enough to deal with in my life - I do not mind someone with similar backgrounds/feelings or similar issues to my own as long as we can co-exist and it be in a semi-postive way that is okay, but I do not want emotional baggage and I do not want to deal with someone else's. I would rather us be willing to work on and heal. To me, if you are cutting, you have a way to go and I am not there. I worked hard and for years to get over my divorce, (not a cutter-but that left a scar, I have had enough "emotional" scars to heal from), a lifetime to deal with messed up family stuff, and self-harm I did enough of in other ways in the past so it is not what I want to see someone do to themselves! Not at all! It isn't cool, I don't think it is interesting or romantic, no more than any other messed up coping skill. Like I said, I have enough in my life that I deal with or have and things not cool. I want to date more emotionally fit and healthy as possible who is as relationship/romantically capable as possible. No one is perfect, but I do want progress or a fit that is right for me or raise me.
It scars the body & hurts those who care
Not suicidal people either, if I know not that I choose-No.
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